My experience with an online romance scammer

I never believed that I could fall victim to a romance scammer. I am not the type to do so...at least that is what I always thought. Now I know that very attitude is what made me the exact kind of woman many modern romance scammers are looking for. I am a natural introvert. As a young adult I fell down the internet rabbit-hole at a crucial stage in my development. When loneliness inevitably overcomes me, I have always found it easier to turn inwards and online to alleviate the emptiness that ensues. Strangers were safe to talk to. You could get away from them in just a click. You could open your heart without showing your face and then disappear and never have to see or know them again. Against this background i found myself on an online friendship site. His name was ali, or at least that was his username. I never believed he had given me his real name. He started messaging me and at first I was resistant. He was too young in my opinion, to be seeking romance from me. And th...